live life happy

(random thought from Drena)

Greetings Everyone!  I pray and hope that all is well with and for you and in your lives, homes and "world".  The below poster IS TRUTH!!!

The above is something that one of my maternal great-uncles frequently told me.  Never part ways or make major decisions while angry...You don't know what the next moment holds.  Although an associate of mine and his wife weren't angry...His wife went to have a minor medical procedure performed on Friday; She was doing well Saturday...Talking and laughing.  My friend went to his office Sunday morning before going to visit his wife.  He received a call saying that was non-responsive.  She was immediately transferred to another hospital for emergency brain surgeon.  Sadly...Today...My friend is a widower today and is trying to be strong for his daughters.

We don't know what the next moment hold. Therefore, NEVER burn bridges or depart with anger, hostility, animosity or regret because at some point that person...that relationship was who and what you wanted.  Be clear about your intentions...The next moment is not promised.   If you must part ways with someone you love...Or once love...Do it in a mature, kind/loving manner.  The next second is NOT promised to any of us.  Let's NOT continue to waste time arguing, avoiding, ignoring nor neglecting the people who are important to us.  In all honesty...Will the disagreement or argument really matter in 5 hours...5 days...5 months...5 years?!!?  It takes more energy to be angry than it does to be happy.  Even if things don't work in your favor just be happy becaause you had an opoprtunity to love and/or be loved.

I wish ALL of you peace, blessings, joy and LOVE....

Drena